Support for Parent Carers
Understanding Parent Carers in BCP
Some parents may not realise they are a parent carer—they’re simply doing what feels natural. But if you’re giving more support to your child than is typically expected for their age, you may be a parent carer.
You don’t need a formal diagnosis for your child to be recognised as needing extra support. What matters is the level of care you provide.
Other adults—like grandparents or relatives—who are the main carers for a disabled child can also access support for parent carers. For example, if a grandparent is caring for a disabled child because the parents are unable to, they can use the same services and resources.
Information, Advice and Support for SEND in BCP
If you're looking for help navigating services for children and young people with special educational needs and/or disabilities (SEND), BCP Council provides a wide range of support. This includes help from social care, education, health, and voluntary sector services.
You can find out more about what’s available and how to access it by visiting the BCP SEND Local Offer – Support, Information and Advice page.
Preparing for Adulthood
As your child approaches adulthood, planning ahead is important. BCP Council supports young people and their families as they move from children’s to adult social care. This transition is about more than services—it’s about helping young people live the lives they want.
You can find guidance on what to expect, how to plan, and who to talk to on the BCP council Preparing for Adulthood page.
This includes:
- Planning early (from Year 9 onwards)
- Involving the young person in decisions
- Coordinating support across education, health, and social care
- Helping young people build independence and confidence
Support from BCP Carer Support
BCP Carer Support offers a range of services to help parent carers look after their own wellbeing and stay connected:
- Carers Information Service – regular updates, news, and resources to help you stay informed.
- Bridgit – an online tool to help you find local support and services tailored to your needs.
- Beach Huts – free access to beach huts in Bournemouth, Christchurch and Poole for a relaxing break.
- Holiday Lodge – a short break opportunity for carers and their families to rest and recharge.
- Carers Choir – a friendly, inclusive group where you can enjoy singing and meet other carers.
Additional Support and Resources
You can also find services, advice, and information through:
- Parent Carers Together - a group of parents and carers of disabled children working to make sure services in Bournemouth, Christchurch and Poole meet the needs of children with SEND and their families.
- Parent Carer Foundation - an inclusive charity supporting parents and carers of all ages. They help people caring for children or adults with disabilities, mental health needs, or long-term conditions to share their experiences and influence local services.
- Dorset SENDIASS - free, impartial information, advice and support for children and young people with SEND and their families.